“A paixão é cega e quer ficar assim. Não leva em conta a realidade.” (Um jovem – Net) Ray Short no seu livro Sexo, Amor ou Paixão Cega diz: “A paixão cega é uma das principais causas do número elevado de divórcios. Induz homens e mulheres insuspeitos a contrair casamentos infelizes, como ovelhas ao abate”. A Bíblia afirma: “Quem confia no seu próprio coração é estúpido” (Prov. 28:26) Ela( A Bíblia) descreve o amor: “O amor é longânime e benigno. O amor não é ciumento, não se gaba, não se enfuna, não se comporta indecentemente, não procura os seus próprios interesses, não fica encolerizado. Não leva em conta o dano.” (1Corí. 13:4, 5) Relações alicerçadas sobre tal amor genuíno, passarão vitoriosas a prova do tempo. O amor verdadeiro é “longânime” e “não procura os seus próprios interesses”. Não é egocêntrico. Embora envolva fortes sentimentos de ternura, estes são contrabalançados pela razão e por um profundo respeito pelo outro. O maior contraste entre o amor e a paixão cega é que o amor não é interesseiro: leva em consideração as necessidades, bem estar e os sentimentos do outro, sem desforra de ações. A paixão cega é egocêntrica, sem princípios guia-se por desejos. Em pessoas sob paixão cega quase sempre ouve-se: “Eu”, “Meu”... “Eu quero” em geral num clima de trocas de favores, sem ação abnegada, vinda de um coração enganoso, quer a pessoa saiba disso ou não. A Bíblia alerta: “Enganoso é o coração acima de todas as coisas.” (Jere. 17:9) “O olhar espiritual da paixão é cego pela matéria” (Um Poeta – Net) O melhor modo de saber se o que você sente é amor ou paixão cega é dar um tempo, pondo à prova seus sentimentos mantendo-se à distância. Paixão passa, o amor não. Observe melhor a pessoa, tipo: que reputação ela tem? Será que ele, ou ela, se dá bem com os outros? Que baseia seu estilo de vida, que objetivos tem na vida? Estas respostas irão ajudá-lo (a) a decidir se deve envolver-se emocionalmente ou não. “O amor é o perfeito vínculo de união”. (Col. 3:14)
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The Bible: Love or infatuation: How to Tell??
"Passion is blind and wants to stay that way. It does not take into account the reality. "(A Young - Net) Ray Short in his book Sex, Love or infatuation says:" The infatuation is a major cause of the high number of divorces. Induce unsuspecting men and women to contract marriages unhappy, like sheep to the slaughter. " The Bible says, "Whoever trusts in his own heart is stupid" (Proverbs 28:26) It (The Bible) describes love: "Love is longsuffering and kind. Love is not jealous, does not brag, is not puffed up, does not behave indecently, does not seek its own interests, does not become provoked. It does not take into account the damage. "(1Corí. 13:4, 5) such relations grounded on genuine love, will the successful test of time. True love is "longsuffering" and "does not seek its own interests." It is not egocentric. While involving strong feelings of tenderness, these are outweighed by reason and a deep respect for each other. The biggest contrast between love and infatuation is that love is not selfish: It takes into account the needs, welfare and feelings of another, without retaliation actions. The infatuation is selfish, unprincipled guided by desires. In people under infatuation often hear: "I," "Mine" ... "I want" in a climate of general exchange of favors, not selfless action, coming from a deceitful heart, whether one knows it or not. The Bible warns: "The heart is deceitful above all things." (Jere. 17:9) "The spiritual eye is blinded by the passion of the matter" (A Poet - Net) The best way to know if what you feel Is it love or infatuation is to give a time, testing out their feelings by keeping her distance. Passion goes, love is not. Observe the person better, like, what reputation it has? Does he or she gets along well with others? Basing their lifestyle, which has goals in life? These answers will help you (a) decide whether to become involved emotionally or not. "Love is the perfect bond of union."(Col. 3: 14) ...
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The Bible: Love or infatuation: How to Tell??
"Passion is blind and wants to stay that way. It does not take into account the reality. "(A Young - Net) Ray Short in his book Sex, Love or infatuation says:" The infatuation is a major cause of the high number of divorces. Induce unsuspecting men and women to contract marriages unhappy, like sheep to the slaughter. " The Bible says, "Whoever trusts in his own heart is stupid" (Proverbs 28:26) It (The Bible) describes love: "Love is longsuffering and kind. Love is not jealous, does not brag, is not puffed up, does not behave indecently, does not seek its own interests, does not become provoked. It does not take into account the damage. "(1Corí. 13:4, 5) such relations grounded on genuine love, will the successful test of time. True love is "longsuffering" and "does not seek its own interests." It is not egocentric. While involving strong feelings of tenderness, these are outweighed by reason and a deep respect for each other. The biggest contrast between love and infatuation is that love is not selfish: It takes into account the needs, welfare and feelings of another, without retaliation actions. The infatuation is selfish, unprincipled guided by desires. In people under infatuation often hear: "I," "Mine" ... "I want" in a climate of general exchange of favors, not selfless action, coming from a deceitful heart, whether one knows it or not. The Bible warns: "The heart is deceitful above all things." (Jere. 17:9) "The spiritual eye is blinded by the passion of the matter" (A Poet - Net) The best way to know if what you feel Is it love or infatuation is to give a time, testing out their feelings by keeping her distance. Passion goes, love is not. Observe the person better, like, what reputation it has? Does he or she gets along well with others? Basing their lifestyle, which has goals in life? These answers will help you (a) decide whether to become involved emotionally or not. "Love is the perfect bond of union."(Col. 3: 14) ...
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